[Squatty]

I wanted to start up a discussion about the type of feedback, people want when they post their pictures in this section of the forum.

I've just read another picture thread where the original poster has been mocked by one particular member (although others have done this too in the past). I find this level of disrespect pretty nauseating. The main reason why I no longer post regularly on here is I didnt like the way that member used other member's pictures as a vehicle to take cheap shots and self-promote. Of all the sections on the forum, the picture threads probably require most courage because you are revealing yourself and making yourself vulnerable (to the piss taker) in the process. For that reason alone, I feel the person deserves a respectful response.

Personally, I dont think there is much value in the "good progress - keep it up" posts when they are the only comment. Also, I see little value in only mentioning the positive when there are clearly areas to be addressed.

If I was to ever post pictures again, I would be very explicit in which areas I want to be given feedback. In the event, I give feedback, I would try and accenuate the positives but at the same time commenton what I consider the poster's weak areas and how they could be addressed.

Do any other members have opinions on this?

[Nath]

I agree, it's pretty lame to take the piss when someone has taken the plunge and put some pics up. Not sure if I agree with the lack of value in the 'good progress' responses, I see what ur saying, but I feel that any posts regarding a persons appearance are opening themselves up for comments on an aspect of their lives that for many is a sensitive one, alot of time people do need the positive rienforcement just as a confidence boost, a lot of people suffer because of a lack of confidence and a poor self image (whether these people are the ones posting pics is debatable) but I for one feel motivated by praise and reassurance that I am headed in the right direction.
In my experiance of using this site, the overwhelming majority of posters seem like bloody nice folk and if they wanted to point out a weakness would have the tact and respect to do so in am approriate manner. Unfortunately the internet is open to millions of people and for ever million decent people there will invariably be a couple of tools. The pisstakers u mention will say that by posting pics, u are opening urself up for comment and should expect one or two adverse reactions, which is possibly a fair point. Anyway, to all those considering posting pics, don't be discouraged.

[PScarb]

ok i have not seen this but if anyone flames a member for posting his/hers pictures up for constructive criticism will be banned without hesitation.

if i or another MOD miss this happening then please let us know.

it takes alot of guts to post a pic on the web and then just to be flamed by some armchair BB is wrong and will not be entertained.

[Squatty]

Originally Posted by Nath

Not sure if I agree with the lack of value in the 'good progress' responses, I see what ur saying, but I feel that any posts regarding a persons appearance are opening themselves up for comments on an aspect of their lives that for many is a sensitive one, alot of time people do need the positive rienforcement just as a confidence boost, a lot of people suffer because of a lack of confidence and a poor self image (whether these people are the ones posting pics is debatable) but I for one feel motivated by praise and reassurance that I am headed in the right direction.

Don't get me wrong. I wasn't dismissing the "good progress" comments - I just feel that sometimes that is the only comment that is made and could have something more substantial added.

I believe that the vast majority of people who post pics are looking for two things: reinforcement of any positive progress they have made,and, respectful opinions about their weak points and suggestions on how to bring the weak points up.

[Nath]

Originally Posted by Squatty

Don't get me wrong. I wasn't dismissing the "good progress" comments - I just feel that sometimes that is the only comment that is made and could have something more substantial added.

I believe that the vast majority of people who post pics are looking for two things: reinforcement of any positive progress they have made,and, respectful opinions about their weak points and suggestions on how to bring the weak points up.

Yep Yep

I'm in full agreement.

[bulldozer]

Originally Posted by PScarb

ok i have not seen this but if anyone flames a member for posting his/hers pictures up for constructive criticism will be banned without hesitation.

if i or another MOD miss this happening then please let us know.

it takes alot of guts to post a pic on the web and then just to be flamed by some armchair BB is wrong and will not be entertained.

I can think of one member that does it at every opportunity.

[CMinOZ]

Good point Squatty, I saw the comments that were posted in your picture thread and some were out of order and I can understand why people would be hesitant to post pictures here.

I joined this board because there are some great posters here with good ideas and, more often than not, the ability to give guidance and criticism based on personal experiences. On the whole this has been my experience though I am becoming increasingly frustrated with certain board members who seem to go out of there way to p1ss people off. On any other boards these people would be labeled a troll and banned, yet one keyboard tough guy remains a thorn in everyones side.

[Tall]

Is this pick on Tall day again....?

Hi Tall fans

I vote we start a Tall for Moderator campaign... I think the tall people among us should be represented on the moderating panel....

[Ali M]

Totally agree with you all, i put my pics up and got slated and still do to this day, dont i CMinOZ?

i have never taken the piss out of a pic, FACT! unlike a few people on this board...

Seems to me that the forum is going like it was a year ago when a certain person formed his own group.

[Tall]

Originally Posted by Ali M

Totally agree with you all, i put my pics up and got slated and still do to this day, dont i CMinOZ?

i have never taken the piss out of a pic, FACT! unlike a few people on this board...

Seems to me that the forum is going like it was a year ago when a certain person formed his own group.

Ooooooooooh you big fibber you.

http://www.musclechat.co.uk/progress...tml#post210644

And

Originally Posted by Ali M

Well you have to laugh "LOL" there ive laughed, yes seen your pics and you need to lift heavier mate.