Extreme

Its common in all walks of life, the biggest cause of failure is the fear os success itself and the responsibility that it brings.

Keep it going Mel, your muscle should be like diamonds that you wear everyday, be proud of them and don't be afraid to show them off. Others may put you down for it, all it is is jealousy.

Some guys say they don't like muscular women, lets give a few examples, Anna Kournikova, The Williams sisters, Kelly Holmes, Elle McPherson, Fergie in the Black Eyed Peas, look at all the track and field women in the Commonwealth games, I love the bodies on the sprinters, pole vaulters, 400+800m runners, swimmers, etc.

I'd love to see some fat beer swilling tosser blow out Anna Kournikova! Even Jenna Jamieson hit the weights pretty hard.