Hi guys. I must warn you this is going to be a long thread before you start reading it. lol
Dunno where to start? Right, I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 42 (doesn't look 42 cos she is fit and trains)
She is seperated from her husband for 5 years but both share the same house still as they have a shared mortgage. She has a 19 year old son and a 12 year old daughter. She is desperately unhappy at home and does not get on at all with her husband and she cant wait to get away from her piss head son.
Before she met me she was seeing a 52 year old married man, the married man dumped her and went back to his wife. Then he wanted to see her again then dumped her again for his wife. My girlfriend had enough of him by this point, obviously.
A month or so later, I started seeing her and that was fine until this married man said he wanted to be with her, my girlfriend told him to Fck off! and should have said to him then about me but didn't. A week later he had a nervous break down and upped and left his wife, got his own place and has been pestering her to get with him, probably because he thought she was still single and thought there would be a chance.
My girlfriend has been looking for a way out of her home with her husband and wants to get a divorce but she knows this is going to cost her a fortune and she only earns 750 a month.
She hasn't known what to do. She was thinking, "do I go to this 52 year old man who has the money to take me and my daughter away from my life but I dont really love him" or "do I go with this 28 year old
who I love more than anyone she's ever loved, makes her so happy and daughter thinks is excellent, but isn't rich". She said to me If I hadn't been seeing her she would have gone straight to him and she feels guilt that he left his wife for her. Turns out he was gonna leave his wife anyway as the marriage was dead.
Well, saturday she was crying to me and didn't know what to do, I said to her that all I want for her is to be happy, whatever she chose to do. She said she knows how she feels (wants to be with me because she loves me, and I love her), well anyway saturday night she calls me and says that she wants to be with me forever and she is gonna tell this other bloke to get lost because she's in love
. Had a great time with her last night from 5pm to 11pm :twisted:
Really do love her.
Right, this is where it get complicated
, I hve been asked out by another girl and have arranged to go out for a drink on wednesday, she is 19 and very fit!!!.
Girlfriend said to me on sat night "do you trust me because I totally trust you?" I said "yes, totally" as I was recieving texts from this other girl.
What do I do guys? Do I try and keep both happy! I know I love my girlfriend more than anyone else I've ever been with and I think about her all the time but I also want to take this other girl out. :?
Its only a drink after all!
Just digging myself a big hole aren't I!
Anyone else have this dilema before, bet it wasn't as complicated as mine.
If I was left to my own choice I would take both on and buy shares with viagra
Told you it was gonna be a long thread
J